this is a hard post for me. Over the past few years I’ve been busy with work and college and didn’t understand why “friends” did not talk too me or blamed me for not seeing them.
As a young adult or even an adult sometimes we are blinded by the busy lives we live and don’t realise that some of our “friends” are actually aquaintances.
For me a friend is someone you can call , message or snapchat without a fear of judgement . Someone who will meet you and understand you have a busy or difficult life . Someone who won’t show you off . Someone who will speak too you for ages and won’t get bored.
A friend will laugh with you not at you . They won’t make you feel small but will make you feel loved.
Sometimes friends become acquaintances because of distance however they will remain friends because they are the same when you see each other again.
I have a small friend circle and I have learnt that now . Just because you don’t have a million friends it does not mean your not a valued person. So if you feel alone call that friend , write it down or FaceTime them. You thought of someone then… Remember that’s your true friend.
ps. Sorry this was a soppy post just had a terrible day and I’ve suddenly realised my true friends.
speak to you tomorrow ,